read your books when at boarding school learnt a lot hope you are well.

We are the same age, I'm 1 year older than you.
I always like your first book back in 1970s.

I started reading your books for inspiration and am following (hopefully) in your footsteps.. Great website from a Great Lady

Dear Xaviera,
Greetings, best wishes and salutations from Canada! I am delighted to see that you are doing very well for yourself in Amsterdam (one of my three favourite cities in the world, along with Dublin and Ottawa) and I am also pleased to see that you are still every bit as beautiful as ever.

I remember hearing you on the radio sometimes back in the 70's, and your frank and open-minded approach to talking about sex helped me become a more considerate and unselfish lover, for which I will be eternally grateful. I sincerely hope that your bed and breakfast continues to do well by you, because if anyone deserves to be prosperous and happy, it's certainly you.

If I am ever fortunate enough to spend time in your fair city of Amsterdam again, I know exactly where I want to stay while I'm there, just for the privilege of being able to say "I slept in Xaviera Hollander's house!"

Thanks again for all the helpful advice you gave me on the radio!

Sincerely, "Mac" Leahy

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